Category: Self-Integration
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Working With the Whole-Self
Why I Tend to Move Away from Labels Like “I Am Codependent” or “I Am Anxiously Attached” I tend to move away from identity-based labels because they collapse living psychological processes into fixed definitions. In doing so, they often obscure more than they clarify. From a depth-psychology perspective, patterns like codependence or anxious attachment are…
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A Whole-Self way to meet the end of the year – Annual Reflection Guide
This reflection is designed to meet you where you are – intentionally expanding your inner state and stretching you into courage, clarity, and presence. I hope you find this process as deepening and spacious as I have. Warmly,Sri
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Ambition Climbs Hills. Inner Work Rewrites the Terrain.
Growth Isn’t Linear. It Comes in Cycles. One of the most persistent myths about inner work is that it moves in a straight line. Have an insight. Integrate it. Move on. That narrative is tidy, efficient, and deeply misleading. In lived experience, inner work does not unfold like a ladder. It unfolds in layers, seasons,…
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From Burnout to Vitality
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When Alina arrived for our first session, she was burnt out – shut down, irritated, and desperate – but unable to move beyond one phrase: “I’m not okay” She couldn’t describe what she felt in her body or name an emotion. Everything felt like “too much.” Her irritation was really frustration with herself. Some of…
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Engineering and Stillness – The Perfect Match for Innovation
In this state, we access: • Focus without rigidity • Creativity without chaos • Insight without overthinking
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The Pause: Reclaiming Safety Before Reaction
A reader recently wrote to me with a question that stayed with me: It is a powerful question because it speaks to what so many of us live. The body stays ready, the mind races to help, and usefulness becomes our form of safety. This post is written in response to that question, shared with…
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How to Lead When Under Pressure
“From shutdown in contentious meetings to owning her space with confident clarity. Here’s what was really happening beneath the surface, and how she found her way back to presence.” Why Communication Skills and Projecting Confidence alone don’t help She was a capable and thoughtful professional – someone who wanted to grow into leadership. She took…
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The Three Relationships Within Every Relationship
But beneath every connection lie invisible layers shaping how we love, what we fear, and how close we’ll let another person come. And until we tend to those deeper layers, even
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The Freedom of Releasing Deep Set Contracts
Sometimes the patterns that shape our lives began long before we had words. Many of us live under the weight of agreements we never meant to make. These “contracts” often begin in childhood, and they continue to shape our relationships and choices long into adulthood. This story offers a glimpse into how acknowledging one of…
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The Angel Inside The Marble
I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free – Michelangelo We often think growth is about becoming more. More accomplished. More skilled. More confident. We imagine that if we keep adding, we’ll finally arrive — with greater presence, more worth, and deeper value to the people we love. But…
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When the Unconscious Speaks Through Dreams
In a reflective dream analysis, a client explores feelings of love and connection with both her husband and a mysterious man. The dream symbolizes her inner struggles and the integration of her masculine qualities, highlighting a journey toward wholeness. Through this process, she embraces transformation and resilience, discovering deeper self-awareness.